At the beginning of a relationship, it isn’t uncommon for you to run out of things to say. It might even reach the stage where you’ll have to force conversations just to keep talking. This can often lead to trouble if no one acts quickly.
There’s no doubt you’ll be enjoying the personal moments where you meet up regularly in order to spend some time with each other. But it is also important to keep talking. Boys are known to be more silent whereas girls can talk about anything that has ever been on God’s green Earth. Here are questions you can ask during this period will help you power your way through this rough patch.
1. Do I make you happy?
Asking this question will show that you care for her and the relationship. Although the question will always be yes, it’ll also let each other know that they expect something from what they have at the moment.
2. What came to your mind the first time you saw me?
Her first impression might not be all as romantic as you think. It might’ve been something extremely embarrassing, or if you’re lucky, it might actually be something incredibly lovely. Whatever it may be, allow her to be open. She might even joke about her first impression by saying something along the lines of “I thought of you as an idiot”, or it might also be true, but let’s hope it is just a joke.
3. Which reminds you the most of me?
This question can be incredibly romantic especially if you both spend a lot of time listening to music together. You can also ask her to sing the song, or if you’re up for it, you can sing it for her.
4. When did you realise you fell in love with me?
You can test her memory as well as be sweet with this question. It’ll be a really lovely answer nonetheless, and she’ll share it with you with sparkly eyes even though she might be a little shy.
5. If you were only allowed to choose one thing and one thing only from this world, what would you want?
Don’t be afraid to ask this question; your girlfriend will definitely know what the answer should be. It’s just the way she’ll answer that will be sweet. It’ll also allow her to speak about her feelings straight from the heart.